4) THE SEVERITY OF "LASHON HA'RA"
(a) Question (R. Yochanan): What do we learn from "Mah Yiten Lecha u'Mah Yosif Lach Lashon Remiyah"?
(b) Answer: Hash-m told the tongue "all other limbs are erect, but you lie down. All other limbs are external, but you are internal;
1. Further, I put two walls in front of you, of bone (teeth) and flesh (the lips). What more safeguards must I put to stop you from speaking Lashon ha'Ra?!"
(c) (R. Yochanan): Anyone who speaks Lashon ha'Ra is like one who is Kofer b'Ikar (denies Hash-m) - "Asher Amru li'Leshonenu Nagbir Sefaseinu Itanu Mi Adon Lanu."
(d) (R. Yosi bar Zimra): Tzara'as comes upon one who speaks Lashon ha'Ra. It says "Melashni va'Seser Re'ehu Oso Atzmis," and the Targum of "la'Tzemisus" is "la'Chalutin";
1. (Mishnah): The only difference between a Musgar (quarantined) Metzora and a Muchlat (fully Tamei) is that the latter must tear his clothes and let his hair grow.
(e) Question (Reish Lakish): Why does it say "Zos Tihyeh Toras ha'Metzora"? (Maharsha - it should have said "ha'Tzaru'a")!
(f) Answer: This is the law of "MoTZi Shem Ra." (This usually refers to one who falsely claims that his bride was not a virgin, but here it refers to any slanderer.)
(g) Question: What is the meaning of, "Im Yishoch ha'Nachash b'Lo Lachash v'Ein Yisron l'Va'al ha'Lashon"?
(h) Answer (Reish Lakish): In the future, all the animals will gather and ask the snake 'lions are Dores (trample) and eat (immediately), wolves Toref (kill their prey) and eat. What benefit do you get from those you kill?
1. The snake: What benefit does one who speaks Lashon ha'Ra get?
(i) (Reish Lakish): One who speaks Lashon ha'Ra accumulates sins up to Shamayim - "Shatu va'Shamayim Pihem u'Leshonam Tihalach ba'Aretz."
(j) (Rav Chisda): It is fitting to stone one who speaks Lashon ha'Ra. It says "Oso Atzmis," like it says "Tzamsu va'Bor Chayai va'Yadu Even Bi."
(k) Version #1 - (Rav Chisda): Hash-m says that He cannot live in a world with one who speaks Lashon ha'Ra - "Melashni va'Seser Re'ehu Oso Atzmis Gevah Einayim u'Rechav Levav Oso Lo Uchal";
1. We read this like "Ito Lo Uchal." (I cannot be with him.)
(l) Version #2: Hash-m says that He cannot live in a world with haughty people. We read "Gevah Einayim u'Rechav Levav Oso Lo Uchal" as if it said "Ito." (end of Version #2)
(m) (Rav Chisda): If one speaks Lashon ha'Ra, Hash-m tells the Sar of Gehinom 'I will judge him above, you judge him below' - "Chitzei Gibor Shenunim Im Gachalei Resamim";
1. "Chetz" refers to the tongue. "Gibor" is Hash-m, and "Gachalei Resamim" is Gehinom.
(n) Question (Rav Chama bar Chanina): If one spoke Lashon ha'Ra, how can he correct this?
(o) Answer #1 (Rav Chama bar Chanina): If he is a Chacham, he should learn Torah - "Marpei Lashon Etz Chayim." If he is an Am ha'Aretz, he should humble himself - "v'Selef Bah Shever b'Ru'ach."
(p) Answer #2 (Rav Acha bar Chanina): If he already spoke Lashon ha'Ra, he cannot correct this. He already received Kares - "Yachres Hash-m Kol Sifsei Chalakos Lashon Medaberes Gedolos"!
1. Rather, to avoid speaking Lashon ha'Ra, a Chacham should learn Torah, and an Am ha'Aretz should humble himself. (Tzon Kodashim - also a Chacham must do so. Torah protects from sin only while one is learning.)
(q) (Tana d'Vei R. Yishmael): One who speaks Lashon ha'Ra accumulates sins equal to three great transgressions - idolatry, Arayos and murder;
1. It says here "Lashon Medaberes Gedolos," and the three (other) great sins are also called "Gedolos"!
2. Suggestion: (The plural form "Gedolos" connotes two.) Perhaps he accumulates sins equal to only two of the three!
3. Rejection: There is no reason to exclude one of the three more than the others, therefore we learn all three.
(r) (Chachamim of Eretz Yisrael): Lashon Tilsai kills three people - the speaker, the listener and the one spoken about. (Rashash - it is called "Tilsai" because it kills three. Rashi - it refers to talebearing, which arouses quarrels between two other people; Tosfos - it is third from the outside, for it has two guards (teeth and lips) in front of it; Maharsha - it is as great as the three transgressions.)
(s) Question (Rav Chama bar Chanina): What is the meaning of "Maves v'Chayim b'Yad Lashon"?
(t) Answer: The tongue can kill just like the hand.
1. Suggestion: Perhaps it can kill only near the victim, just like the hand!
2. Rejection: It says "Chetz Shachut Lashonam." (Arrows can kill from a distance.)
3. Suggestion: Perhaps it cannot kill more than 40 or 50 Amos way from the victim, just like arrows!
4. Rejection: "Shatu va'Shamayim Pihem u'Leshonam Tihalach ba'Aretz."
5. Question: Since Lashon ha'Ra goes up to Shamayim, why must the other verse compare it to arrows?
6. Answer: This teaches that it kills like arrows.
7. Question: Since we know that Lashon ha'Ra kills like arrows, why do we need "Maves v'Chayim b'Yad Lashon"?
8. Answer: This teaches like Rava taught;
i. (Rava): One who wants to live should use his tongue (to speak Divrei Torah). One who wants to die should use his tongue (for Lashon ha'Ra).
5) EXAMPLES OF "LASHON HA'RA"
(a) Question: What is an example of Lashon ha'Ra?
(b) Answer #1 (Rabah): It is Lashon ha'Ra to say "there is fire in Ploni's house." (This implies that they are gluttonous, and they are always cooking.)
(c) Objection (Abaye): There is nothing wrong with that. He merely tells people where to find fire!
(d) Answer #2 (Abaye): If one said in a derogatory way "where will you find fire, if not in Ploni's house?!", it is Lashon ha'Ra.
(e) (Rabah): Anything said in front of the party discussed is not Lashon ha'Ra.
(f) Objection (Abaye): All the more so it is forbidden. It is Lashon ha'Ra and impudence!
(g) Answer (Rabah): I hold like R. Yosi;
1. (R. Yosi): I never said something and turned around to see if the one I spoke about was there. (I would say the same in front of him. Alternatively, I never retracted when the one I spoke about came. Maharsha - R. Yosi permits statements like, "there is fire in Ploni's house." Surely, if Ploni was there, it was said in a positive way (he is always feeding the poor). Maharal - when speaking in front of the party discussed, the primary transgression is arousing a quarrel. It is not called Lashon ha'Ra.)

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