Pirkei Avot - Ethics of the Fathers

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Chapter 3 Mishna 3
פרק ג משנה ג

Rabbi Chanina ben Teradyon would say: if two sit together and no words of torah are [spoken] between them, this is a sitting of scoffers, as it is written: "nor sat he in the sitting of scoffers.. [rather, the Torah of G-d is his delight]". But if two sit together and there are words of torah [spoken] between them, the Shechina (Divine presence) abides between them, as written: "then they that fear G-d spoke to each other; and G-d listened and heard; and a book of remembrance was written before Him for those who fear G-d and give thought/honor to His Name" (Malachi 3:16). From this verse we only know concerning two. How do we know that even if one sits and is involved in torah that the Holy One, blessed be He, designates for him reward? Because it is written: "Let him sit in solitude and be [involved] in silence, for he shall take for it [reward]" (Eicha 3:28).
רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בֶן תְּרַדְיוֹן אוֹמֵר, שְׁנַיִם שֶׁיּוֹשְׁבִין וְאֵין בֵּינֵיהֶן דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, הֲרֵי זֶה מוֹשַׁב לֵצִים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים א) וּבְמוֹשַׁב לֵצִים לֹא יָשָׁב. אֲבָל שְׁנַיִם שֶׁיּוֹשְׁבִין וְיֵשׁ בֵּינֵיהֶם דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, שְׁכִינָה שְׁרוּיָה בֵינֵיהֶם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (מלאכי ג) אָז נִדְבְּרוּ יִרְאֵי יְיָ אִישׁ אֶל רֵעֵהוּ וַיַּקְשֵׁב יְיָ וַיִּשְׁמָע וַיִּכָּתֵב סֵפֶר זִכָּרוֹן לְפָנָיו לְיִרְאֵי יְיָ וּלְחֹשְׁבֵי שְׁמוֹ. אֵין לִי אֶלָּא שְׁנַיִם, מִנַּיִן שֶׁאֲפִלּוּ אֶחָד שֶׁיּוֹשֵׁב וְעוֹסֵק בַּתּוֹרָה, שֶׁהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא קוֹבֵעַ לוֹ שָׂכָר, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (איכה ג) יֵשֵׁב בָּדָד וְיִדֹּם כִּי נָטַל עָלָי.


~Level 1~
Shevet Sofer, chelek beit Shlach - "if two sit together.. letzim (scoffers)" - if two people sit and toil in useless talk, certainly in the end they will come to words of letzanut (scoffing) and it is as if they are already now a sitting of letzim (scoffers).
~Level 2~
Rabeinu Yonah - "sitting of scoffers (moshav letzim)" - they fix a sitting for idle talk. This is called a moshav letzim regarding bitul torah (wasting time from torah study). For this chapter talks on the matter of bitul Torah.

But for two people who sit and toil in torah, the Shechina rests between them, as written: "then they that fear G-d spoke to each other.." - the plain meaning (pshat) of the verse is that it is referring to the righteous in the future. When people will see their exalted level and ask "why did they get all this?" They will answer: "because they spoke in words of torah to each other, and G-d wrote this in the book of remembrance and now gives them the reward of their work.
~Level 2~
Sforno - even though their words do not contain any scoffing (letzanut), but nevertheless since there isn't any words of torah, it is considered a sitting of scoffers. For his whole matter is vanity and a waste (kol inyano hevel v'davar nifsad). He brought a proof from the verse: "nor sit in the company of scorners; But his desire is in the Torah of G-d" (Tehilim 1:1-2) - ie every sitting is a sitting of letzim except that which has words of torah.

But two who sit and there are words of torah between them, even though their main conversation was not on this - the Shechina is among them.

In saying the outcomes of both opposites, he teaches the greatness and importance of the matter in order to also rouse the masses...
~Level 2~
Chida - Chasdei Avot - "sitting of scoffers" - i.e. they are talking useless things without benefit such as wars of kings or the like..certainly they are scoffing (mitlotzezim) on the great reward of in-dwelling of the Shechina (hashraat haShechina) and having their words inscribed. All these things are not important in their eyes or heresy has been injected in them to scoff (mitlotzetz) the sages who said this, and there is no greater sitting of scoffers (moshav letzim) than this.
~Level 3~
Rabbi Avraham Azoulai - Ahava b'Taanugim - "if two sit together and no words of torah are [spoken] between them, this is a sitting of scoffers" - the two are sitting quietly and nicely but nevertheless wasting their time and there are no "words of torah between them, etc."

That which he did not say "they are not toiling (oskim) in torah, this is because "words of torah" implies a verse or agadah or simple teaching, while "toil in torah" implies in depth analysis (pilpul v'svara) to bring out the matter in truth.

On this he said: "two who are sitting and there is not between them even "words of torah" which is light - this is a sitting of scoffers (moshav letzim).

"there is not words of torah between them" - some explain that the intent is not that they are not toiling in torah.. Rather, the intent is that even if they are toling in torah. But since each one is sitting on his own in his own place and they are not toiling together - this is called a sitting of scoffers (moshav letzim). For the reason they are not learning together is because each one takes lightly the view of his fellow and mocks his knowledge. Because he thinks: "what benefit will I gain to join him?" Due to this there are no word of torah between them and each one learns alone.
~Level 2~
Matanat Avot - we learn from here that the opposite of a "sitting of scoffers" is not a "sitting of wise men" (moshav chachamim) or a "sitting of sharp scholars" (moshav lamdanim). Rather, every place where they are toiling there in words of torah, this is already a place where the Shechina resides. It does not need to be a place where two great sages discuss deep matters of halacha, "uprooting mountains and grinding them together" through sharp logic and deep arguments (pilpulim). Rather any time two Jews sit together and one of them speaks to the other some thought of mussar or a vort on the weekly parsha (torah reading) - this is already a place where the Shechina resides. Amazing!!!
~Level 4~
Daat Zekenim on Pirkei Avot, writings of Rabeinu Yerucham haLevi of Mir - "if two sit together and there are words of torah [spoken] between them, the Shechina abides between them" - the mishna is teaching us a great foundation regarding the greatness of torah. For we were taught in Sanhedrin (39a): "whenever there are ten people (in a minyan), the Shechina rests." But less than this, the Shechina does not rest. The mishna is teaching us that this is only for prayer. But for torah, it is not so. Rather, any place where there is torah, the Shechina rests there.

The reason is as our sages said: "the Holy One, blessed be He, said to Yisrael: 'I gave to you the Torah, to separate from it, I am unable.." (Shemot Rabba 33:1).

Rather, in every place you go, make for Me that I should dwell there, as written: "they shall make for Me a sanctuary and I will dwell amongst them" (Parsha Teruma).

The explanation of "to separate from it, I am unable" is not that it is difficult to separate from it. But rather that literally (mamash) He is unable.

If it were not written, it would be impossible for us to say it.

The explanation is that we find in Sifri (brought in Ramban on Bamidbar 30:3) that there is an aspect called: "the life of the king" (b'chayei hamelech) and there is the aspect of "the king himself" (melech atzmo).

The secret of the matter is that the torah is of the aspect of "the life of the King". Thus, "to separate from it, I am unable". This is what we learned that "even if one person sits and toils in torah, the Shechina rests with him.

This is what our sages said: "even though there were twelve synagogues in Teveria, Rabbi Ami and Rabbi Assi prayed only between the pillars (which support the Beit Midrash where they learn)..

In the Midrash (Yalkut Shimoni Mishlei 938):
"both the soul and the torah were compared to a candle, as written: 'the soul of man is G-d's candle' (Mishlei 20:27), and 'a mitzvah is a candle and torah is light' (Mishlei 6:23). Says the Holy One, blessed be He: 'My candle is in your hand and your candle is in My hand. If you guard Mine I too will guard yours'. This is analogous to two people who owned vineyards. One lived in Galil but his vineyard was in Yehuda, while the other lived in Yehuda but his vineyard was in Galil. One day they met and one said to the other: "guard my vineyard in Galil and I will guard your vineyard in Yehuda. If you lay desolate my vineyard, I will lay desolate your vineyard". So too, the Holy One, blessed be He, said: "guard My torah and I will guard you.."
It is clear from the Midrash that the torah is the candle of G-d mamash (without exaggeration). "My candle is in your hand", an aspect of "the life of the King", and "to separate from it, I am not able".

If it were not written, it would be impossible for us to say this. The secret of the matter is that the candle of G-d is mamash (without exaggeration) in our hands.

"My candle is in your hands" - "you ascended on high, you took captives; you took gifts to be among men" (Tehilim 68:19).

The ways of G-d are truly known to us. For behold we have been commanded to walk in His ways (Devarim 11:22). He too is also known to us, so to speak, as written: "My beloved is white and ruddy... His head is as the finest gold;...His eyes are like doves beside rivulets of water,...His jaws are like a bed of spice, etc. etc. this is my beloved, and this is my friend" (Shir HaShirim 5:10-16).

All this knowledge is due to "the candle of G-d in our hands" - mamash!

This is what the Midrash says: "says Akilas to king Andrinus: 'I wish to convert and be a Jew'. He replied: 'what do you see in them that you wish to convert?' He said: 'even the smallest of them knows how G-d created the world, what was created on the first day.. on the second day.. on what the world stands and their torah is true".
For due to His candle in our hands, everything is revealed to us.
~Level 4~
Chida - Zeroa Yamin - (kabalistic) - man was created mixed and intertwined with all the worlds. He draws shefah to vivify his soul through torah and avodah (service) which are the causes to draw on us the Shechina which is the life (chiyut) of the Nefesh, Ruach, and Neshama. Through this, Shefah is drawn down to all the worlds.. This is what is said "yoshev badad", "badad" is gematria 10, that he has intent to join the 10 sefirot in the four (bedalet ) word, "veyidom", with correct thoughts, "ki natal" - he takes the shefa to all the worlds and "alav" to his nefesh, ruach, neshama due to this...